Flying Solo and Loving It

"You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay?" ~ Jim Rohn

Flying solo as a PR consultant has given me the freedom and independence I've always craved, but it's comforting to know that I'm surrounded by some awesome co-pilots and mentors who have helped me to get where I am and keep me moving in the right direction.

I know many small business owners for whom this was a lifelong dream, and others who were forced into self-employment because of layoffs or other circumstances. So whether you're actively planning to take the leap, or it's something you dream of doing one day, here are some tips for developing the right kinds of relationships to get there.

1. Surround yourself with positive people who are encouraging, uplifting and will cheer you on as you work toward your dream.

2. Build a network of successful professionals in your industry and study what they have done to become successful.

3. Use social media to connect with others who are doing what you want to do, and learn from them. Participate in facilitated discussions that take place on networks such as LinkedIn and Twitter. One of my favorites is the #solopr chat on Twitter at noon (central time) on Wednesdays.

4. Hang out with people who have high expectations of you and will help to make you accountable.

5. Resist the temptation to become engaged with "toxic" people who are pessimistic, cynical or bitter.

6. Have an arsenal of prepared responses that you will use with others and yourself when doubters come your way.

7. Establish a relationship with at least one mentor whom you can call for advice, and make a commitment to pay it forward to a budding professional when the time is right.

8. Read, read, read. Find relevant books, articles, blogs or ezines to keep your mind engaged and always thinking of what is possible.

9. Pray, knowing that your most important co-pilot who wants the best for you is God.

Thanks to the many co-pilots who have supported me along the way, I am now flying solo and loving it!